A new season of joy, kindness, and discovery

The past few months have been challenging. I’ve experienced some personal losses, but they came from choosing to prioritize my mental health and removing myself from situations that caused more stress than joy. For so long, I’ve tried to put family and friends first—but in doing so, I realized I was losing parts of myself.

Thankfully, I had the support of loved ones who encouraged me to choose me. That support gave me the strength to refocus and let go of the heartache. It hasn’t been easy—redirecting my energy toward what truly matters has taken a lot out of me—but our summer road trip, Wynston/mom Universal_Disney trip,

many trips to Manchac and the start of a new school year were just what I needed. They all brought joy back into my life.

As summer came to a close, we knew we needed to help Wyatt continue moving forward and find purpose after graduation. School had always been a struggle for him, but since finishing, he’s become a completely different young man. He’s enjoying life again—and it’s been a gift to witness his emotional growth and to support him as he continues being his authentic self.

One major source of his joy has been Ava, a young woman who has truly captured his heart. For the past six months, she has brought love and light into his life. As a mom, of course I worry—Wyatt’s ornery personality can be a lot!—but Ava has such a beautiful way of calming him down, giving him space when he needs it, and still enjoying time together.

Watching them grow in their relationship has been incredible. She shows him patience and kindness that feels rare, and I feel so lucky that not only Ava, but her family too, have embraced and supported their relationship. I couldn’t be happier for him.

Meanwhile, Wynston has also been enjoying life, spending time with a sweet girl named Raven. Seeing the boys and their girlfriends spending time together—laughing, bonding, doing things I once thought might never be possible—fills my heart. I’m so proud of Wynston, Raven, and Ava for encouraging Wyatt to step out of his comfort zone and try new things.

As parents of a special needs son in a wheelchair, we used to worry whether Wyatt would ever experience the love and connection that come from a romantic relationship. And yet, here we are—living in a season of joy, kindness, and discovery.

Now, as we move into the final months of 2025, I feel a renewed sense of purpose. I've found my way through a rough patch, and I’m continuing to rediscover MY happiness. I’m soaking in every moment—watching my boys grow, making memories with them and Patrick, and holding close the beauty of family.

I’m proud of myself for finding joy again when it felt out of reach. I’m grateful for a husband and kids who lifted me up when I was low, so I didn’t miss out on all the fun and love happening right in front of me.

As you can see they all put up with Wyatt's silliness: wearing a cut off shirt to Homecoming pics for his brother!